{"id":2874,"date":"2014-11-16T15:42:26","date_gmt":"2014-11-16T20:42:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/blog_news\/?p=2874"},"modified":"2020-04-11T10:38:49","modified_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:38:49","slug":"legal-separation-divorce-avoid-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2014\/11\/16\/legal-separation-divorce-avoid-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"Legal Separation or Divorce, Avoid a Costly Mistake"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When the&nbsp;marriage reaches that critical moment. &nbsp;When its time to call it quits? &nbsp;To move on with life? Should you just move out and do nothing? How long should you wait to take legal action? &nbsp;This all of course depends on your specific situation. &nbsp;But lets look at the hazards of waiting to take legal action. &nbsp;This by no means is intended to encourage a person to rush into a <a title=\"How to Get a Divorce in Tennessee\" href=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/10\/14\/divorce-lawyer-getting-divorce-in-tennessee\/\">divorce<\/a> or <a title=\"Legal Separation | Tennessee Divorce\" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/02\/17\/legal-separation-in-tennessee\/\">legal separation<\/a>. &nbsp;But, failing to act could cause a major problem. &nbsp;Informal marital separation can and often does lead to unforeseen complications.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Coronavirus Pandemic and Legal Separation v Divorce <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Due to the economic devastation caused by the coronavirus Pandemic a legal separation may be in order. Real estate values and 401(k) values diminished by COVID-19 should rebound in value given time. But, the marriage is over, and you need and want to move on with life. Discuss a legal separation versus divorce with Chattanooga divorce attorney Jim Purple. Get the advice you need from the safety of home via video or phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-very-light-gray-color has-luminous-dusk-gradient-background has-text-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/bdebce76hy.timetap.com\/#\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Request Phone\/Video Appointment <\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Child Custody Complications Without Legal Separation or Divorce<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/755664F5-71BB-40C1-B444-5FA23E14BAF3.jpeg\" alt=\"Divorcelawyer is it time\" class=\"wp-image-3400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/755664F5-71BB-40C1-B444-5FA23E14BAF3.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/755664F5-71BB-40C1-B444-5FA23E14BAF3-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/755664F5-71BB-40C1-B444-5FA23E14BAF3-300x300.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When parents are married, the custody of the children is in both parents equally. &nbsp;If the parents separate without a court order, &nbsp;there are very few limitations on either parent. &nbsp;One parent could take the children to another state. &nbsp;Even several states away. &nbsp;It is perfectly legal under most circumstances. &nbsp;This can make things quite complicated. &nbsp;But, if you file for <strong>legal separation<\/strong> or <strong>divorce<\/strong>, the law protects you. &nbsp;In Tennessee a statutory injunction restrains the parties from&nbsp;doing such things. The Court can also order certain things to be or not be done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Problems with Multiple State Separations<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Although this doesn&#8217;t happen in every family, it&nbsp;does occur often. &nbsp;Husband and wife separate, but take no legal action. &nbsp;No divorce attorney. &nbsp;No legal guidance. The children live with mom. &nbsp;Dad picks up the children for visitation. &nbsp;Dad may even pay some child support. &nbsp;Sounds great, right? Every one is getting along, without a court order. But, what if dad takes the children to another state. &nbsp;Maybe he lives in another state. &nbsp;Then he decides to file for divorce in the other state. &nbsp;Now you have a very complicated situation, that may require a jurisdictional question to be resolved between the courts in two (2) states. &nbsp;There are <em>Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Laws<\/em> in most states. These laws&nbsp;guide the courts in a legal separation or divorce action. &nbsp;However, the <em>legal bills mount up<\/em> when having to deal with multiple courts. &nbsp;Often times more than one<strong> divorce attorney<\/strong> is needed as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Same State of Residence, Still Problems Arise<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe dad lives in the same state, but decides not to return the children to mom. Now there is a possession issue. Outside of a court order mom would be unable to force dad to return the children to her care. &nbsp;Now a divorce or legal separation action must be filed immediately. Even if the timing is not right financially. And, it could very well run the legal costs up much higher. &nbsp;School district conflicts are also possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Divorce Lawyer is Needed to Fix the Mess<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/legal_separation_tennessee.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"251\" height=\"151\" src=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/legal_separation_tennessee.png\" alt=\"Tennessee Legal Separation or Divorce\" class=\"wp-image-1753\"\/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are just a few examples of what can happen with child custody <strong>when parents separate but don&#8217;t seek a legal separation or divorce<\/strong>. &nbsp;Ultimately, very few such situations remain uncomplicated for a long period of time. &nbsp;Unless the parties reunite, eventually a <em>divorce lawyer is necessary<\/em> to untangle the mess that is created. &nbsp;If your not ready for a divorce but must live separately, seek legal advice. &nbsp;A legal separation may best for now. At least the court orders will be enforceable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Financial Woes Outside of Legal Separation or Divorce<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A <strong>legal separation or divorce<\/strong> resolves financial issues between the parties. &nbsp;A divorce provides for a final disposition of property and other financial arrangements for all time. &nbsp;A legal separation provides for the assignment of debts and expenses. Legal separation can also provide for property disposition by agreement. &nbsp;However, without the intervention of a court, the financial agreements of the spouses is about as good as the agreement to remain married for life. Such informal agreements usually fall apart. &nbsp;This can lead to financial disaster. &nbsp;Also, because the parties are still legally married, financial liability remains for each other. &nbsp;You may be held responsible for the financial sins of your spouse. Such as a bad car wreck, or hospital bills, etc. Retirement accounts continue to vest an interest in your spouse as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Seek Legal Advice from a Divorce Lawyer Sooner then Later<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There are way too many <em>complications that arise from informal separations<\/em> to list here. Suffice it to say that the risk is very high that a major problem will arise. &nbsp;Forcing you to take legal action. &nbsp;The best way to prevent such problems? &nbsp;Seek <strong>legal advice from a divorce lawyer<\/strong>, immediately. &nbsp;When you decide it is time to separate, consult with a divorce attorney before you move out. The lawyer will review your situation and give you the guidance you need. &nbsp;Maybe your not ready for the finality of a divorce. &nbsp;Legal separation may be the right option. &nbsp;Speak to a family law attorney about your situation today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A-1024x576-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3686\" srcset=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A-1024x576-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A-300x169-1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A-768x432-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A-425x239-1.jpg 425w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/01\/965BCB4A-2F8B-49A1-8F59-14A820AF263A.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Chattanooga <a href=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/chattanooga-attorney-jim-purple\/\">Divorce attorney<\/a> Jim Purple, serving your family in Chattanooga, and surrounding areas. Contact Purple Law Firm today and let our legal team help you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the&nbsp;marriage reaches that critical moment. &nbsp;When its time to call it quits? &nbsp;To move on with life? Should you just move out and do nothing? How long should you wait to take legal action? &nbsp;This all of course depends on your specific situation. &nbsp;But lets look at the hazards of waiting to take legal action. &nbsp;This by no means is intended to encourage a person to rush into a divorce or legal separation. &nbsp;But, failing to act could cause a major problem. &nbsp;Informal marital separation can and often does lead to unforeseen complications. 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