{"id":1230,"date":"2011-08-20T10:56:18","date_gmt":"2011-08-20T14:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/blog_news\/?p=1230"},"modified":"2019-09-10T22:31:07","modified_gmt":"2019-09-11T02:31:07","slug":"divorce-attorney-chattanooga-protecting-rights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/08\/20\/divorce-attorney-chattanooga-protecting-rights\/","title":{"rendered":"Do it Yourself Divorce, No Attorney?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">Do it yourself Divorce<\/h1>\n<h2>When you are <strong>getting divorced<\/strong>, should you have an <strong>attorney<\/strong>?<\/h2>\n<p>What if your spouse has an attorney to draft an &#8220;<a title=\"Uncontested Divorce in Tennessee: Agreed Dissolution of Marriage\" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/10\/28\/uncontested-divorce-in-tennessee-agreed-dissolution-of-marriage\/\">agreed<\/a>&#8221; divorce? \u00a0Or you and your spouse get a do it yourself divorce kit? \u00a0As with most legal issues, the answer to these questions is somewhat complicated? <a href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/divorce-lawyers-chattanooga\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3063 size-thumbnail\" title=\"Contested or Agreed Divorce in Tennessee\" src=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/05\/20180512_120903683_iOS.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a> In a typical <strong>divorce<\/strong> involving children <strong>child support<\/strong> is set based upon the <a title=\"Tennessee Child Support: How is it calculated?\" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2010\/08\/31\/tennessee-child-support-how-is-it-calculated\/\">Tennessee Child Support Guidelines<\/a>.\u00a0 One parent will carry health and dental insurance and both parents will pay their proportionate share of the premium. Uninsured health and dental costs including deductibles are typically split 50\/50 between the parents.\u00a0 If the children are to attend private school, then usually both parents will share in the financial burden. Be prepared to handle these and many more issues in a do it yourself divorce.<\/p>\n<p>[KGVID]https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/02\/IMG_4602.mp4[\/KGVID]<\/p>\n<p><strong>But what if the divorce is not a typical one<\/strong>.\u00a0 Imagine this scenario: Your spouse hires an attorney to draft an <strong>agreed divorce. <\/strong>You<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>read the agreement and realize that you get virtually nothing but pay almost everything.\u00a0 The children will be spending equal time with both parents &#8211; 50\/50 parenting time and joint <a title=\"Child Custody and parenting time in Tennessee \" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2010\/10\/12\/child-custody-in-tennessee\/\">custody<\/a>. \u00a0You have to pay rehabilitative <a title=\"Tennessee Divorce What about alimony?\" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2010\/08\/26\/tennessee-divorce-what-about-alimony\/\">alimony<\/a> for five (5) years at $2500 per month plus almost $2,000 per month in <strong>child support<\/strong>.\u00a0 You also must maintain <strong>health insurance on the children.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0You pay all 100% of the <strong>uninsured medical and dental expenses<\/strong>.\u00a0 Additionally, you must pay 100% of the <strong>private school tuition<\/strong> and education expenses for the children.\u00a0 If this is not enough, you must also pay the mortgage on the <strong>marital home<\/strong> until it is sold.\u00a0\u00a0 Your spouse is not disabled, but in fact has a college education, and is fully capable of working.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why would anyone agree to this?<\/strong>\u00a0 In a do it yourself\u00a0<strong>divorce<\/strong>\u00a0without a\u00a0<strong>lawyer<\/strong>\u00a0a person is very prone to agreeing to something that is not desirable. \u00a0Nor likely to be ordered by the court. \u00a0 The above scenario could have turned out differently if each person had been represented\u00a0 by a <strong>divorce attorney<\/strong>.\u00a0 No doubt that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">any lawyer would have advised against such a one sided agreement<\/span>.\u00a0 Under certain circumstances a person\u00a0 may be required to pay both <strong>alimony and child support<\/strong>, and a portion of health insurance premiums and uninsured costs.\u00a0 But, when both parents are well educated and capable of being gainfully employed, then <strong>both should contribute financially to the support of the children<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>There are times when one attorney can and does draft an agreement which is fair and proper for both parties.<\/h3>\n<p>But as seen here there are times when this does not happen. \u00a0Before entering into a do it yourself divorce. \u00a0Always carefully consider your options and consult with an experienced <strong>family law attorney<\/strong> of your own. \u00a0 Before You may seriously regret an agreement made without <a title=\"Divorce Attorneys \u2013 How to Choose the right lawyer\" href=\"http:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/02\/25\/divorce-attorneys-choose-theright-lawyer\/\">sound legal advice<\/a>, and you may very well be stuck with it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even when the divorce is uncontested there are times when not having a divorce attorney leads to disastrous results. Always consider consulting your own family law attorney.<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/2011\/08\/20\/divorce-attorney-chattanooga-protecting-rights\/\">Read More &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","ghostkit_customizer_options":"","ghostkit_custom_css":"","ghostkit_custom_js_head":"","ghostkit_custom_js_foot":"","ghostkit_typography":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[32,16,17,20,24,29,30],"tags":[45,53,86,87,136,138,231,328],"yst_prominent_words":[2032,965,440,1826,2327,354,558,751,389,1829,2329,2328,483,1825,567,769,1062,1827,633,632],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-admin","4":"has-excerpt","5":"post-1230","7":"format-standard","8":"category-divorce-lawyer-chattanooga-tennessee","9":"category-domestic-relations-family-law","10":"category-domestic-relations-attorneys","11":"category-family-law-attorneys","12":"category-law-firm","13":"category-should-have-had-lawyer","14":"category-tennessee-divorce-attorney","15":"post_tag-alimony","16":"post_tag-attorney-at-law","17":"post_tag-child-custody","18":"post_tag-child-support","19":"post_tag-divorce-lawyer","20":"post_tag-do-it-yourself-divorce","21":"post_tag-legal-rights","22":"post_tag-uncontested-divorce"},"featured_image_src":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Todd Couvillon","author_link":"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/author\/admin\/"},"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"hoot-small-preview":false,"hoot-large-preview":false,"hoot-medium-preview":false,"hoot-wide":false,"hoot-extra-wide":false,"hoot-boxcontent":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Todd Couvillon","author_link":"https:\/\/purplelawfirm.com\/law-and-you-chattanooga\/author\/admin\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Even when the divorce is uncontested there are times when not having a divorce attorney leads to disastrous results. 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